Other world, other rules. How to set the rules of engagement in scene “world-building.” Make processes that get you and your partner in the mindset for play with your own rituals.

What makes impact play sexy rather than just painful?

Negotiating before a scene is crucial, but how does one communicate in the role without "losing the script?" Do you find you need something more nuanced than a safeword or green-yellow-red? How can you check on your sub while maintaining the ruthless, selfish, dominant role? How can a sub ask for what they want without blatantly topping from the bottom?